How will I know when its time?

“It is almost an impossible task to decide the right time to say goodbye to the pet that has acted as a best friend and constant companion in your life. But it is up to us to be brave for our pets at the end of their lives and it is during this time we have to work with our veterinary care team as well as within our own boundaries to make an informed decision and prevent prolonged suffering””

Dr Sandra Karlsen, Lead Veterinarian

Understanding euthanasia from a vet's perspective

Having to make the decision to euthanise can feel like a heavy burden that often comes with some degree of guilt. In those moments it’s important to remember that it is a gift to be able to say goodbye under peaceful circumstances. As veterinarians we are truly privileged to be able to help end suffering through an experience that is fear, stress and pain free. Euthanasia is not only a way to prevent ongoing suffering, but prevent suffering from occurring in the first place.

The three phases of a pet's lifecycle

1
Good quality life

This phase is easy to recognise - your pet is well, happy and thriving. Veterinary care is usually routine at this stage.

2
Quality of life is compromised

In this phase of life - your pets' quality of life has been compromised. The phase can be long or short depending on your pet's condition.

Quality of life may be compromised secondary to age related changes or from diagnosis of a specific condition. Veterinary care is usually needed regularly to ensure comfort is maintained. It is during this phase it would be appropriate to choose euthanasia.

It's important to work with your veterinary care team to help decide on the right time for you and your pet and prevent prolonged suffering. 

3
Act of suffering

In this phase your pet has entered a phase of sustained suffering. Your pet is now unable to do or think about anything other than the pain of their condition. We would like to make the decision to euthanise prior to entering this stage.  As veterinarians we consider euthanasia to be a loving gift that can not only stop but prevent suffering from occurring.

When determining when is the right time to euthanise, it's important to remember that there is not one right time, rather a period of time when euthanasia is an appropriate path.

If we look at life in 3 stages - you will have first phase; happy and thriving, second phase; quality of life is compromised and third phase; sustained suffering. The second phase whereby quality of life is compromised is when euthanasia would be considered an appropriate path. The length of this period will depend on the specific condition of your pet and can be short with something like heart disease or certain cancers or long (years) with well managed arthritis.

 We would like to avoid the third phase all together as this is a period of sustained suffering. It is therefore important to work within yourself and your own boundaries as well as with your veterinary care team to make sure we are doing what we can to prevent suffering and also making informed decisions on when to say goodbye.  

Assessing your pet's quality of life

During the subjective time whereby quality if life is compromised, there is no right or wrong time to euthanise. Owners who have experienced the end of life journey with a previous pet will often make the decision earlier, as they have the lived experience of leaving this too long.

Our Goodbye Good Boy quality of life calculator is designed to help you objectively asses your pets quality of life.

Assess your pet

What is the process for a euthanasia at home?

Our home euthanasia services are delivered with care and empathy at the forefront of everything we do. We move at the pace you are comfortable to ensure a peaceful passing.

1

Our mobile
vet arrives

Once the veterinarian arrives, the full euthanasia procedure will be explained to you based on your interest and comfort level.

2

We provide
pre-sedation

Unless it's not in your pet's best interest, a sedation injection will be given to ensure they're comfortable. This way, your pet will become sleepy, and then drift off to sleep before the final euthanasia injection.

3

A Peaceful
Passing

Once you are ready, the euthanasia medication will be given and your veterinarian will give you space to be with your pet at this time.

OPTIONAL

Cremation &
Aftercare

If you have chosen a cremation package, our team may arrange to transport your pet for their aftercare service and their ashes hand delivered home depending on your chosen service.

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